The mountain did not win

On the 28th and 29th, Tomo and I climbed Mount Fuji along with 16 others and 2 guides. Well, we climbed with thousands, probably, but our group was 18. The trip was organized by the Japan headquarters of my company, so it was a nice excursion for disparate organizations to mingle.

The climb was not easy but everyone made it, although not at the same pace. The elevation of Mt. Fuji is 3776 meters, and I thought that was the highest I had ever been (other than an airplane), but then I looked up the l’Auguille du Midi near Mont Blanc and realized I actually had been higher. But I had gotten there by cable car, so that’s hardly fair.

We met near Tokyo Station at 8:00 am and boarded a chartered bus just for our group. We got to the 5th station on the Kawaguchiko side of the mountain about 11:30 pm for a 1:00 pm start. Our plan was to hike up to the 8th station, spend the night, and then summit in the morning.

We arrived at the Gogome rest house (5th station rest house) at around Noon, and planned on eating lunch there before our assault.

We are starting relatively high

The 5th station

It was pretty crowded, and inside we saw some very zombie-esque people absolutely passed out around the restaurant. It had much of a ski lodge feel, with people tired after a long day of skiing. Except it was Noon. We had a very nice bowl of udon, and I bought walking sticks for Tomo and me. I have never really been a walking stick guy, but people had recommended it and also you can get a pine walking stick and have it branded at the various stations along the way.

Figuring out the lunch vending ticket machine,

How does this work?

 

And waiting for the foreigners to figure out the lunch ticket vending machine.

Just put the money in and order!

 

Tomo managed to have an ear of corn as well … getting that last little bit of energy before the climb.

Grilled corn on the cob

 

Our group set out with our guides, one in the front, one in the rear. We could not help but notice the people staggering up the path as we got started. The path was actually a little bit downhill, so we were merrily rolling along. Our start was at 2305 m. And now, our rest was over.

Here’s Tomo looking fresh and excited. We got that hat in Vegas.

Gambarou!

 

The path started heading up, and by up I mean up. Our group was pretty fresh and we were setting a blistering pace. Our group ranged from 13 years old to 50+ years old, so we had a variety of speeds. One would think the 13 year old would be the slowest. However, I mistakened the 13 year old in our group to be a youngish looking college student. Yikes! He was at least a foot taller than I was at 13. He was definitely the rabbit that everyone was chasing. I kept wondering about the tortoise and the hare, but he never tired the entire trip.

You will never feel alone.

About to get mobbed from below

 

We made it to the 6th station pretty easily. After all, it wasn’t that steep, the altitude, while high, wasn’t extremely high, and we were all excited to get going.

The sixth station marker

 

Things got a little tougher between the 6th and 7th station though. Fortunately, the path was one way, so we couldn’t see the people coming off the mountain. Either between the 6th and 7th or 7th and 8th, one of our group started falling back quite a bit. The guides were afraid she was showing the first sign of altitude sickness. She had not been feeling well in the morning, and that was carrying over. Our group slowed a little bit, but the Americans in the group were racing against themselves, so we kept splintering. One guide said he would stay back and make sure she made it up to our resting station.

The president of our Japan subsidiary and her husband. I enjoy this picture – its nice to see executives relaxed.

Our Japan leader and her husband

 

Getting above the clouds, part of our group is to the left.

Early in the day.  Lots of smiles.

 

When we started we had some clouds, but they occasionally broke and you could see to the peak. As we were hiking, we quickly rose above the clouds and were directly in the sun. I was soaking wet, and of course a backpack never helps to reduce the sweating. Pretty soon after leaving the base station, there is no natural protection from the elements. It is just you, the path, and rocks. You can see the various stations rising above you, but they seem almost toy-like in their size and they seem almost like mirages, because they seem to teasingly stay the same distance away no matter how long you’ve been hiking.

There wasn’t a lot of scenery on the climb.

Vegetation at the lower elevations

 

Our group of 11 scrambled up the mountain, arriving at the hut at about 6:00 pm. The sun had set behind the mountain by that time and the air was just starting to get a chill to it. We were introduced to our sleeping quarters. If that’s what you want to call it. We had 2 upper bays and 2 lower bays. One set of bays was designed to sleep 8 up and 8 below, and the other set was designed to sleep 3 up and 3 below. Because we were foreigners, I guess we got a break and it was determined that 7 could use the 8 person bay. Tomo was a bit shocked, and suggested that 8 may be enough for Japanese, but certainly inadequate for the large gaijin who would soon be bedding down together. The staff was hearing none of that theory, so we guessed we needed to find a way to make it work.

At the 8th station, feeling pretty good that we had made it.

The calm before the storm

 

Because the hut serves many people, we were asked to eat right away. I was pretty hungry, and knew that salted sawdust probably would have tasted good. Instead, we had mystery meat curry. Don’t touch that stuff! I was so hungry, I had no problem eating the curry. Most everyone else did too. A round of beer was bought for everyone, although I worried some about beer at altitude. Still, I wasn’t going to continue until 4:30 am, so what the heck?

He’s going to regret this meal later.

I'm not sure it is a good idea to eat this

 

Everyone got the same meal.

That's salmon and rice for breakfast in the wrapped bento

 

The sun sets quickly on the mountain, and early.

An early sunset at the 8th station.

 

While we were eating, the remainder of our group arrived. We finished their meal together and then, because of lack of anything else to do, we went to bed. I’m not sure what time it was when we first laid down, maybe 8:00 pm. I was tired, but sleeping at 8:00 pm is not natural for me. I tossed and turned as best I could. I couldn’t really turn and there definitely was no tossing, since I was surrounded by colleagues I had never met before. I tried to sleep on my side as well, because I didn’t want some position-induced snoring to keep everyone awake. Sleeping on my side didn’t really work well though because the “mattress” was so hard that I started developing bruises on the pressure spots. I tried sleeping on my back, but I had no place to put my arms. I was able to sleep in bits though.

About midnight I woke up and thought, “I don’t feel so hot.” About the same time, Tomo woke up and said, “Drink.” Followed by, “I have a headache,” which quickly became, “Can I have an aspirin.” Uh oh. After looking at him scrunch up his face, we decided to get out of bed and get some fresh air. My stomach was dancing and I was not feeling well. I went outside to use the bathroom and was comforted by the cool, fresh air outside the building (not the bathroom). I went back in the hut and Tomo said, “I think I’m going to be sick” and headed out the door. He made it to the bathroom and indeed, he was sick. He came back, not looking any better. I walked to my bag and got the oxygen canister a colleague had given me. Tomo breathed in a little of that air, hoping it would make him feel better. It didn’t and he was sick again.

By this time, it was pretty clear that Tomo had altitude sickness, and there wasn’t going to be anything we could do to make him better other than descend. We sat outside for a while, trying to get some fresh air. Many people start late at night and do the hike in one day – hoping to arrive at the top of the mountain before sunrise so they can catch the sunrise at the very top. We watched the zombies go by – looking down the mountain revealed a steady stream of headlamped people slowly making their way. It was bumper to bumper on the climb and the view really was strange.

As we were sitting there, three Asian Americans walked by, two looking pretty healthy and one literally staggering. The guy in the UCLA sweatshirt said, “Come on, let’s keep going.” I asked the staggering girl if she had a headache and felt nauseous. She did. I told her friends they needed to be careful. We gave her a huff of oxygen and I think they rested a bit.

We both felt refreshed enough to try to go back to sleep. We crawled back into our sleeping warren and somehow we both dozed off until the staff woke us up at 4:00 am. Thankfully and somewhat mysteriously, both Tomo and I felt good enough that we thought we could continue. I felt fine but still worried about Tomo, but he was convinced he was good enough to continue. The hut had prepared a salmon and rice bento box for us as breakfast the night before. After nearly losing my curry dinner at midnight, salmon and rice just didn’t appeal to me. Somehow I managed to eat most of it. The crowd had thinned out a little bit, because we were leaving too late to see the sunrise from the summit. That was a disappointment to some in our group, but for me just succeeding to reach the top was going to be enough.

As we were waiting to leave, we saw two foreigners that we all remarked about later. One was a man with his small dog. Why was a dog on the hike with him? How do dogs do at 11,000 feet after hours of hiking? I don’t think they have the physiology for that. Maybe they do. We saw another bearded white man in a pair of shorts and a tank top making his way. At this time, I had on a t-shirt, a turtleneck, my fleece jacket, gloves, and a stocking cap. What was this guy thinking? One of my fellow hikers later suggested that he was perhaps a philosophy teacher at a third rate Japanese university. Not trying to knock philosophy professors here – maybe he was a math or English teacher.

Getting ready to head out in the morning. We were generally well equipped.

Our crew getting ready

 

Our group stayed together for about two switchbacks and then of course, split up. The walk was very narrow and we had to scramble over more rocks than I was expecting. It was difficult to go at your own pace, unless your pace was painstakingly slow. However, I didn’t really mind the pace as it allowed me to catch my breath. I tried to pace Tomo up the mountain, so we’d walk a bit and then have a breather at a switchback. We’d pretty regularly pass folks only to be passed by them the next time we took a break.

Early in the morning on our climb.

Still a long way to go, but we are high

 

And still a long road ahead of us.

Happy at the summit

 

Looking back on the single file climbing the mountain as we approached the peak.

The procession

 

Looking forward you could see the long line ahead, and just how far the summit was.

Just how far to go?

 

As we were climbing there was absolute carnage everywhere, and I actually was worried about some of the people. They seemed absolutely lost. One guy had a completely ashen face and the first time I saw him he was leaning against the wall, having dry heaves. That is always reassuring to witness. Later I saw him staggering along. Another time I saw that he had stopped, sat down, and was shaking uncontrollably. It wasn’t that cold, so I think it was fatigue, shock, altitude sickness, or a combination of all of them. The last time I saw him he was trying to negotiate a step and his leg was shaking quite severely. I hope a guide saw him and helped him. I saw many others passed out along the side of the walk, no doubt trying to get that last bit of energy to make it to the top.

Each hut served as a goal.

The 8.5th station

 

As we were continuing our trek the peak the sun began to rise. We stopped as a group, did three “banzai!” and raised our hands in the air, and continued our climb.

The sun rising over Japan

 

At this point, it was clear that Tomo and I would make it to the top, it was just a question of when. I was a bit ahead of Tomo and unfortunately had the oxygen with me. He wasn’t very happy when he reached me as I was waiting for him just below the summit. He finished off the oxygen and we reached the summit.

Almost to the stop. Just 400 meters, or 30 minutes without stopping.

Almost there

 

Since I was ahead I had a few pictures snapped of me.

Made it!

 

We are just a few steps away from the summit. Tomo still has the oxygen in hand.

Happy at the summit

 

I wish I had taken more pictures at the summit. Sometimes it is hard to remember to be a photographer when you are participating in the adventure. The summit though was a little shocking to us with food stands and a guy hawking drinks in English and Japanese. I did take advantage of one of the shops and had some of the best miso soup I’ve probably ever had!

Here we are truly at the summit. Look how high we are.

Happy at the summit

 

We walked over to the crater, looked at the big hole, and took a group picture. When I get the picture, I’ll add it to the blog.

Mt. Fuji is a big volcano after all.

 

One thing that was interesting, that I also forgot to photograph, was that prices correlated to altitude. The higher you were, the more expensive it was. It makes sense of course, but there were some precious Snickers bars found near the summit.

The descent should have been uneventful, but it is so steep and dusty that all hikers are presented with a new challenge. We were after the initial rush from the top, so it wasn’t quite so bad. However, the trail is so steep and the lava is so fine that dust is quickly kicked up. We were covered, and our noses were caked with black dust. Yeah. Many people fell as well. Once again, we managed our own pace. It was hard and frustrating, but we made it down after about four hours.

Those that did make it to the summit for sunrise can be seen traversing down the mountain as the rest of us aimed for the top. The people on the other path are going down.

One way up, one way down

 

The climb down the mountain was very steep.

This gives an idea of the steep grade

 

After the climb, we went to an onsen, cleaned up, and enjoyed a relaxing meal.

Clean and relaxing at an onsen

 

We were thrilled that our entire group made it safely to the summit and back. The team, although spread across the mountain, did help each other out. It was a great experience for Tomo and I to do together, and we will always have that shared experience. Tomo declared that he was a city boy, but was quite proud of the accomplishment.

Would I do it again? Ask me a week ago and I would have said, “No way!” But now, well, time heals all wounds.

The end of the war

As stated before, I was coming home from the Nagoya Castle Festival and stumbled across the Gokoku Temple with a bunch of laterns burning. I had read something previously about a temple that commemorates the end of the war and lights 4800 lanterns in honor of the war dead of Aichi. I was a little bit concerned about taking pictures, but then I noticed so many others taking pictures that I decided it was OK. This, of course, was on August 16.

Gokokuji lanterns - Nagoya

Gokokuji lanterns - Nagoya

Gokokuji lanterns - Nagoya

Gokokuji lanterns - Nagoya

Gokokuji lanterns - Nagoya

Gokokuji lanterns - Nagoya

 

As for the Nagoya Castle Matsuri, here’s a bunch of random pictures.

Nagoya Castle Matsuri

Nagoya Castle Matsuri

Nagoya Castle Matsuri

Nagoya Castle Matsuri

Nagoya Castle Matsuri

Nagoya Castle Matsuri

Nagoya Castle Matsuri

A typical weekend day

I’ve presented a lot about odd things here in Japan, and things that are different from the US. I’ve never spent that much time talking about the mundane. Perhaps, because, well, it IS mundane. However, when it is a half world away, the everyday is a little bit different.

 

tennis bag
Today I decided to go to the Aeon Mall across from the Nagoya Dome on a quest to find a tennis bag. I want something like the bag in the picture. You know, I have to carry twelve rackets with me all the time. Not really, but when you don’t have a car to dump your stuff in and you have to take a train, it is nice to consolidate so you are not balancing a bunch of stuff on your lap. You can put shoes, change of clothes, balls, etc inside. They are harder than it sounds to find. I’m going to have to use my Japanese internet search skills to find a tennis shop in Japan. I struck out, by the way. No shops in the mall that carried what I was looking for.

Ben Sherman flight bag in the bike basketI also was looking for a general sports bag that would function as an overnighter. In Japan, you need a bag for every occasion. I have my general purpose Ben Sherman flight bag, sometimes called my man purse. It is good for running around for the day. It’ll hold a couple books if I am studying, and easily my iPhone, iTouch, and BlechBerry (I know, I don’t need an iPhone AND an iTouch but for some reason I think that putting music on my iPhone will take up too much space even though it won’t). It also fits nicely in the basket of my ママチャリ, so I don’t have to worry about things rattling out of my pocket as I go down the street. But the Ben Sherman bag is too small for a weekender that requires me to take my computer. We won’t even talk about the bulky backpack I bought that holds nothing (North Face Recon “backpack”). I use it and curse it every time. Well, it works for some things. I found kind of what I was looking for at Aeon, but they didn’t have enough selection for me to decide. I think I’ll just take a bag from a sleeping high school kid in the train. That’s the kind of bag I want.

I decided that I really don’t like malls, whether it is in the US or Japan. There is so much concentrated consumption, yet still I don’t seem to find anything I want. Why is that I wonder? I did find the source for all the bright colored clothing though. Yikes! While I was at the mall, I thought I would put together a bit of a “day in the life” as I headed home from the mall to my home. There is a lot I haven’t shown in photographs, primarily because I see them every day. I need to do better documentation of my time here through “stock” photography.

Let’s start at the mall. As you can see, it is a very big mall, much like a suburban American mall. This is almost suburban. It is indeed an architectural masterpiece.

The mall

 

The mall is out at the Nagoya Dome, where the Chubu Dragons baseball team play. The subway entrance hallway is completely dedicated to the team.

The subway concourse

 

The mascot of the team is, from their name, a dragon. I’m not sure how this equates to a dragon. It seems more like a mouse to me, but I guess the mascot had to be cute.

Is this really a dragon?

Is this really a dragon?

 

Arriving at the entrance, there is always the subway map with fees above the ticket vending machine. I always have a 5000 yen pass with me, so I never pay attention to the price and rarely look at the map. I should look at the map because I have taken the wrong subway a few times when I thought I knew where I was going.

Subway decisions

Ticket machines

 

Once you get your ticket, you have to pass through the entrance wickets.

Subway decisions

 

You wait for the subway by the track. In some stations there are walls that keep you from being able to jump into an oncoming train, but in most cases it is like this station. The yellow strips are for blind people to make their way around the station. The ligher yellow is where the door will be when the train stops. The geek in my always looks at the center of the doors and the center of the tiles to see how good the conductor hit his marks. You can see the raised dotted yellow tile in front of the door.

The track

 

Here’s my local exit for this line – the Hisaya-odori (久屋通) exit of the Meijo line (名城線). After one year, I’m discovering that this is a rather convenient subway line, and I like that it runs every 5 minutes on the weekends instead of 10 minutes like the other line closer to my house. However, it does not take me to Nagoya station. It takes me about everywhere else though. There’s abundant information on each track, including a timetable, a map of the stops and the time to each station, a plan of the station, the location of the exits, and local bus information including line a bus stop location. The time table is in white for weekdays and pink for holidays and weekends.

Subway info

Subway info

Subway info

 

Before you go into the wickets, you have similar information including the general subway map, general train information including the time table (for two lines), and advertising. Also a map of the area also with advertising is available.

Subway info

Subway info

 

This subway station happens to be in the city center, and like many Japanese cities, there is an extensive underground network connecting stations to stations, and buildings to buildings. Of course, there is plenty of shopping and dining underground as well. Although I prefer to stay above ground, this can be very convenient on super hot days, cold days, and wet days.

The underground city

 

The subway entrances are typically easy to find, and they are always marked with their icon and also generally have the same architectural look. You can always count on any number of bikes parked out in front of a subway station.

The entrance / exit

Subway logo

Typical scene

 

This is the biggest intersection near my house, and is the home to two subways lines and my local Starbucks. Traffic seemed to be really thin when I took these pictures.

Crossroads

Looking down Sakuradori

Looking down Utsudori

My local Starbucks and study spot

 

Walking home from the subway stop, there are many things to see, including:

Tearing down another building for yet a new, unoccupied building?

Making room for a different empty building

 

A wedding center.

A local wedding center

 

A typical view.

Looking down Sakuradori

 

My bank, which happens to be a 7/11. It has an international ATM that allows me to withdraw from my savings account. Rare in Japan. It is not really my bank, but I use the ATM there all the time.

Thank heaven

 

An import car. Odd.

A Citroen in Japan

 

A ubiquitous Yama-chan. They are everywhere in Nagoya and specialize in Tebasaki (手羽先), which is basically chicken wings.

Yama-chan

 

And the Lawson’s in my apartment building. It is a convenience store where I can also pay my utility bill. One is due, so I should pay.

I make too many purchases here

 

A view of my apartment building, and one of the bike parking areas.

My apartment building

Bike parking

 

I toured around my neighborhood a little bit too. The streets were very quiet, but I was able to find another Yama-chan. I told you they were ubiquitous.

My neighborhood is quiet on a weekend

Another Yama-chan in the neighborhood

 

And for those of you who wonder what taxis are like, here is an example of two different types. The blue one and the black one. There is a white one too, but I was unable to see one stopped to take a picture. They are actually different sizes and different prices, but I’ve never really noticed the difference. I don’t often take a taxi anyway.

Blue taxi

Black taxi

 

Oh, and this morning, I finally got a picture of a Hate Bus. Yes, both yesterday and today I heard them.

A white hate bus

 

Unfortunately, more noise is coming. I recently read this:

Official announcement of the campaign season for the Lower House general election.

It was decided that the Lower House general election is to be held on August 30, after entering the campaign period on August 18.

Please endure noise from vehicles of candidates [ed. emphasis added].

 

I noticed a little Engrish on my walk as well. It is a flower shop.

Did someone have a lisp?

 

And finally, tonight was the last night of the Nagoya Castle Matsuri. I went for some yakisoba and a beer, and then stumbled across a lantern ceremony at a local temple. 5000 lanterns are offered for the spirits who were killed in World War II. Today is the anniversary of the end of World War II. I’ll post the pictures from the Matsuri and the lantern ceremony another day. I think this is enough for now.

 

結婚式 – A wedding

I experienced my first wedding in Japan this weekend. Weddings are big business in Japan, and after going to this wedding I can see why. Wow. In Nagoya, apparently weddings are even a bigger deal. I have several wedding halls in my neighborhood. The wedding I went to though was in Tokyo.

I met my friend Kentaro in a summer University program in France a few years ago. Yes, I am far removed from University, but our companies sent us to this program, and who can turn down a summer studying in France? We had a great time together and with the rest of the J-Crew – various Japanese, Japanese Americans, and Americans who know Japanese. We certainly have stayed in touch and I was able to visit him when he lived in Hong Kong. That too was a wonderful time and he introduced to a Hong Kong native who showed me around because she had some days off.

Ken invited me to his wedding and I was honored to attend. Weddings in Japan are much more formal in terms of invitation than in the US, and you are never expected to bring a guest. It is you and you only, so you hope you know somewhere there. Fortunately, I did know someone besides Ken or else it would have been VERY lonely.

Typical Japanese weddings have a registration period, then the ceremony, then the reception, followed by the nijikai (second party). The wedding and reception have obligatory business invitees, so the nijikai is where the rest of the folks get to meet up with the bride and groom. I have been to a nijikai before and had a good time.

Of course it was very hot because it was summer time in Japan. I was afraid I was running a little bit late, so I started sweating even more in my black suit. As I was waiting after registration, I was sweating like a pig!

When I arrived, there is an area where you register, and I handed over my wedding gift. The wedding gift is always money in a special envelope, done just right. I was staying with friends and one of them helped me prepare the envelope. The bills are supposed to be brand new but I didn’t have a chance to make it to the bank. Sorry Ken and Mayumi! After I handed over my envelope, I received a smaller envelope. I pocketed it did not open it. Later when I opened it I discovered travel money, and that made my gift seem pretty insignificant.

I met my friend Uchi at the registration – thankfully he saw me immediately. However, since I was the only foreigner at the wedding it probably wasn’t that difficult. I stuck to him like glue. We were herded up to the top floor to be able to walk into the wedding hall.

I should describe the building. The exterior is very gothic and is used only for wedding ceremonies. Inside too kept to the what I’ll call gothic-ight motif with suits of armor, a few swords, and a bit of a Disneyesque sense of decoration.

Wedding hall exterior

We walked down the stairs into the chapel and were greeted by at least a cello, maybe a string quartet. I was too busy taking it all in. Our ushers were dressed in robes with crosses on the front. They carried candles as they escorted us to our pews. In the front of the church was stained glass with images of Christ. Hmmmm. The hall chapel was dimly lit. Also in the front was a pipe organ and an alter. Looking around I noticed multiple cameras mounted at various locations. A DVD surely would be available.

The alter and stained glass

Acolyte / chorus member

Wedding guests

Bells rang and the lights dimmed even more. A trumpeter and a trombone player emerged at the front of the hall and along with the organ flawlessly played a piece of music to introduce the groom. Ken walked up very regally to his spot where he waited for his bride to be. The live music started again and Mayumi, in a white dress with a very long train, was escorted to Ken by her father. Together they walked to the front of the chapel to meet the officiant, who was a silvered hair foreigner.

He welcomed us to, “This Christian wedding” with a voice that, when I imitated him, prompted my American work colleague to say today, “So Sean Connery was the priest?” I’m not sure if there was really any official Christian anything in the wedding, I think it was just someone playing a role. I have been approached to perform weddings in Japan. His Japanese was understandable and clear, but his cadence just felt a little strange. Maybe it is a patriarchal sort of way of speaking.

The wedding roughly followed the format of a typical Western protestant wedding. Sorry Bob and Annie, but there wasn’t any element of an orthodox wedding (although, typical of me, I did drop something when I had a role in the reception). There were hymns that were sung, prayers that were prayed, and vows that were exchanged.

A wide angle shot of the alter

Ken and Mayumi at the alter

Some of the musicians at the wedding

Together at the alter

There was also fantastic music performed at various points. Songs were chosen for their melody I think. As I said, the music was flawless. The acolytes turned out to be the soloists and chorus I believe. These were no average people off the street singing a song. These were trained performers.

The bride and groom were introduced as husband and wife and then walked down the aisle into a shower of flower petals. They then doubled back and got ready to pose for pictures with their families. The guest gathered in the vestibule to prepare for another “flower shower” that I think replaces the throwing of rice. They walked through the canopy of petals (silk and not really very exciting) and exited to some special place.

Mayumi and Ken, Husband and Wife

The first flower shower

The guests headed down to the reception hall. It is tradition in Japanese weddings to give the guests a gift as well. Sitting at each chair was a Tiffany & Co. bag. Oh my. I’ve never said no to Tiffany. The guests were seated and then the bride and groom arrived. There was an MC maintaining the flow of the events. Like any wedding reception, Ken and Mayumi had no time to eat. There was a speech by Ken’s boss, a speech by Mayumi’s boss, a speech by Mayumi’s teacher, and a speech by the person that introduced them, the 仲人 (nakoudo). Of course there was a cake cutting ceremony as well. The parents circulated, making their rounds to each table. We also saw the slide show of Ken, Mayumi, and Ken and Mayumi. Also, Mayumi had to change clothes in the middle of the ceremony of course.

Table setting

Uchi at the wedding

The reception hall

Uchi and I at the reception

Photographing the cake ceremony

Part of the reception was for Ken and Mayumi to circulate the tables and each person was to give them a rose that represented something and make a small speech. That was my role – to represent the table. Ken asked me to make a small speech so I worked with Tomo and my translator to write a small speech. I found out that I was going to be the LAST speech. Oh darn. My speech was in Japanese as well which completely stressed me out. Being last just allowed me to get more nervous.

As the speeches started, I was shocked by how brief they were. I had prepared a little longer speech and now the cards and roses were flashing by. Maybe though the last person is supposed to speak longer? As they approached I whispered to Ken, “Do you want me to do the whole thing?” “Yes,” he said. So I had no choice. I started reading in Japanese into a microphone. Whose voice was that anyway? I didn’t sound like me. Instead of concentrating on what I was saying, I started noticing how I was sounding. I stopped getting nervous speaking in public a long time ago, and here I was like a nervous 5th grader. I almost got done and then I froze. What was next? I made it through the final sentence of my speech and then I was done. Except I wasn’t. I was still supposed to hand the rose to Ken. So of course in shuffling the rose, the card, and the speech I dropped the rose. Uh oh. I hope that doesn’t signify bad luck. Of course, I dropped my brother’s wedding ring at his wedding so this is nothing in comparison. Still, I felt my speech was an awkward moment – but I get the gaijin free pass I hope.

In the middle of my speech

Ken entertained us all in France with his guitar playing and his singing, and I hoped that he would do so again at the wedding reception. He did, this time with a band. A few years of voice lessons have worked well for him. He could sing before, but he seemed a lot more comfortable singing this time.

Ken entertaining the crowd

The reception was closed out by the bride’s letter to her family. Then a speech by the groom, and then the groom’s family speech, one more speech by the groom, and then an exit to allow the receiving line. We watched a DVD of the ceremony (a very quick edit) and that was it. The reception was about two and a half hours only.

A quick picture together

The families together

I should note the food was superb. Everything was perfect (except for a dropped rose and Kentaro’s dad calling him Shintaro – oops). I was honored to be invited.

Quick Report – Hakone

As my previous juvenile post stated, I took a day off on Friday (except I worked too many hours up to Friday so I just didn’t go in to work but I didn’t take a vacation day) and used one of my free nights at a Hyatt in Hakone. Next plan is Fall in Kyoto. Anyway, Tomo and I met in Hakone-Yumoto and chugged Swiss style halfway up a mountain to the resort town of Gora. It was really just a chance to escape the city. The hotel was really relaxing – perhaps too relaxing because we took advantage of Happy Hour and I wasn’t too happy later in the evening with a headache.

Our room with a view was very nice and spacious. The lines were very clean – it felt modern to both of us. To me, it felt Japanese as well but Tomo isn’t so sure. Since Tomo is actually Japanese, perhaps he’s right.

A sleek room with a view

We had a nice view over to the other mountain from our faux balcony. The balcony area was completely enclosed, yet was separated from the rest of the room. It was a very nice sitting area.

I noticed a few families there. I’m not sure what the kids would do – I bet they got bored just staying in the hotel. But you can always find something to do on a mountain.

There was a gaggle of school girls departing their school in Gora for various locations down the mountain, mostly in Hakone-Yumoto. The school uniforms are very interesting – I love the hats. I wondered if it was a Catholic School because I swear I saw one girl reading Mother Teresa manga. Who knows.

Boshi, boshi, boshi